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Tips To Finding Lasting Love And Building A Worthwhile Relationship

Melinda Venessa




Are you single and looking for love? Are you finding it hard to meet your Mr. Right or Mrs. Right? When you’re having trouble finding a love connection, you tend to easily get discouraged or buy into the destructive myths from negative people out there about relationships and dating.

Well, life as a single person is quite interesting too as it offers many advantages and benefits such as being free to do anything and everything you want without the approval of somebody else. You get to pursue your own interests and hobbies. You learn how to enjoy your own company with self meditations while appreciating the quiet moments of solitude.

However, if you are ready and willing to share your life and space with somebody else, then you must be spending a lot of time working on your appearance and making everything around you look perfect since you want to build a lasting and worthwhile relationship, and this makes singlehood life seem frustrating.

Finding the right romantic partner isn’t an easy journey either and it comes with it’s own challenges and difficulties. For some of us, our emotional nature or rather baggage will make this journey more and more difficult because we’ve got our own fears and insecurities.

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We don’t want to attract wrong type of  people into our lives or make bad choices, maybe because we grew up in a household where there was no role model of a solid and healthy relationship and we’ve lived doubting if such a thing does exist. Or maybe we’ve ever been caught up in a short-term toxic relationship and we’re not willing to risk it again. Maybe we might be putting ourselves out in the wrong environments thus making our chances of meeting the right people even lower and this keeps lowering our confidence levels.

However, we can still overcome all these obstacles and negativities and trudge on to our main goal of finding a perfect date. It doesn’t matter if we’ve had traumatising relationships before and get it all wrong everytime it comes to dating and have been burned repeatedly.

We can still make it right on our path to finding a healthy, loving and lasting relationship. A healthy relationship is built when two people who are bound by love develop and build a connection upon trust, honesty, equality, good communication, mutual respect, support towards one another, and a sense of comfortability and fondness around each other.

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